I met this guy online and after a few weeks of emails, texting and phone calls we got together for our first meeting, now this wasn’t a date, this was coffee after work.
The first thing he said to me was “your shorter than I thought you would be” my profile clearly states that I’m 5’5″, and I am all of it.
So right off I’m dealing with a smartass, ok I can deal with this. The rest of the night we spend walking around and talking about what we are looking for and how we see our futures. At the end of 2 hours he walks me to my car which is 8 blocks from his so I offer him a ride, the conversation was easy and playfully light. We get to his car and I get out to say our good nights, he leans down to hug me and holds me close, he means down and kissed me, I was attracted to him and he had the qualities that I look for so why not right?
After a few mor kisses and noticing how I affect him I told him that I had a great night and to call me later. About an hour later he texted me and told me that he had a good night and could t wait to see me again, be asked if I wanted to go to a new years party with him, I said yes.
We talked for the next 2 days and on new years eve he said he was taking his son to go sledding and he would call me when he got home and we would meet up before the party,
Here’s the kicker, it’s 4 days into the new year and he’s never called or texted me back.
What’s so hard about saying, hey I changed my mind or you know I just don’t think this will work or you know I just changed my mind.
Serious why can men grow up and be honest??
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TAMMY Said:
on January 5, 2012 at 9:20 am
The thing about men is if you show any emotion other than horny and happy, they tend to scare off from dealing with any other deviation. They can be big punks sometimes, but its our duty as women to pay them no mind and shake it off.